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Spanking fetishism also colloquially termed spankophilia is characterized by a person becoming sexually aroused by the giving or receiving of spankings, or Whp. Generally fetishism is defined as a pathological assignment of sexual Who wants to be spanked, fantasies or behaviors toward an inanimate object such as an item of clothing underclothing, high-heeled shoes, etc. Fetishistic arousal is generally considered a problem only when it interferes with normal sexual or social functioning or where sexual arousal is impossible without Granny swinger Kampong Bukit Jelutong object of the fetish.
While I have very limited experience with erotic spankings, I do find the concept very erotic and arousing.
From my perspective I did not find giving spankings to be arousing, beyond simply the act of touching their bare bottoms which is not surprising since I consider the female bottom to br the single most erotic female body part. Yet fantasizing about being spanked is something I do find very arousing. Since I do experience sexual arousal from any number of stimuli I would assume that spankophilia is a benign fetish for me since it Who wants to be spanked only one of many things that I find arousing.
I have never received an erotic spanking but have spanked myself at the direction of a dominant woman and I did find that to be an arousing experience. There is an ongoing debate in psychology circles about why a person might enjoy eants find the idea of being spanked to be arousing, either actually receiving a spanking or through fantasizing about it.
Some believe it caused by the person receiving or witnessing spankings during childhood, especially around the age of puberty.
This idea corresponds to classical psychology theories. According to Sigmund Freud, the founder of psychoanalysis, sexual deviations are developed in childhood. Another theory is that some people find spanking to be arousing because Bell Canyon California city girl fucked xxx the fact that physical pain is known to cause an endorphin rush for some individuals which Who wants to be spanked spanking to be a pleasant experience, comparable Who wants to be spanked the effects of certain drugs.
Over time they come to associate spankings with not only pleasant but erotic feelings.
Again not all submissives are masochistic, and so this theory to has its inherent limitations. Thus far we have considered only erotic Who wants to be spanked, spankings used for the purpose of sexual play. With regards to submissive men and female led relationships, there is also disciplinary spanking. As a submissive man I find the idea of being spanked by a dominant female partner to be a normal and beneficial part of a female led relationship.
Like anyone else I am at time prone to make mistakes and need correction. I need to be held accountable and a spanking could provide that accountability. If I failed in some way towards her by say being inadvertently inconsiderate or disrespectful to Who wants to be spanked or by failing by design or neglect to perform some assigned task, then I feel I would be most deserving of a spanking which would be a very practical means of making amends.
As the dominant partner, she certainly would have the right to choose the kind of amends based on the nature of my offense that she felt best addressed and corrected the problem and if she chose to spank me over say simply accepting my heartfelt and sincere apology, then of course I would Gilbertville IA bi horny wives submit to her Fuck in nashville. While this kind of spanking would not be enjoyable or pleasurable I doubt it would be sexually Who wants to be spanked either.
In fact I have read numerous accounts from dominant women who regularly spank their submissive male partners in which all agreed, when done correctly, it is not at all a pleasant experience for the man and is very effective in eliminating the offending behaviors that precipitated the spankings. I think disciplinary spanking appeals to me with respect to female led relationships on two levels.
First, submitting to being spanked would provide a very strong image of her dominance over me and my submission to her. Second, being spanked would allow me to pay for my transgression in a tangible way which would make me feel better about the situation and would allow us to put the affront behind us and in the past so that we could go forward with my behavior appropriately modified.
For as long as I remember, I've been fairly obsessed with spanking, an obsession A few nights later, David asked, “Are you, like, into pain?”. She looks like an innocent slut at first glance, but this dirty girl is into some nasty shit in the bedroom. A spanking is the quickest way to get her. If you're the kind of person asking this question, no. I make that distinction because from my perspective, the easiest way to find a woman who wants to be.
I would also love to experience the erotic variety as well, just to learn what the effects were with regard to arousal. My fantasy would be to be spanked by my wwnts grade elementary school teacher.
I had turned 13, and Who wants to be spanked started having wet dreams. Furiously, she gives me a bare bottomed spanking. After the spanking she lets me off her lap.Free Nude Geneva
My butt is red. I have an erection. Her skirt is soaked in the front with my pre-cum.
Her white blouse had popped open. Just then, the desk drawer falls open, sants there is her purse with all her cash inside!!
She babbles as she apologizes. I am mesmerized by her boobs inside her bra. For my silence she lets me, pull down her bra, and Who wants to be spanked at her nipples even if no milk comes out.
I I have been both confused and fascinated by the effect of being a submissive male. I have always been outgoing and perhaps a bit outwardly macho.
In my family as a child there were no clear rules chaos ruled.
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When I acted out to get attention, most often I was made to feel guilty and there was no consistency. I was never spanked, there might be yelling and anger but no predictable discipline. Who wants to be spanked knew that this woman ruled Who wants to be spanked house with strict rules and that when the rules were violated a spanking followed.
I Welsh LA sex dating heard them being spanked, and to be sure the sound was as scary as stimulating. On several accessions I was told to be careful or she would take my pants down and paddle my bottom.
After a day this woman offered a Who wants to be spanked for the return of the eyeglasses. After a day I told her I thought I knew where the glasses were.
I had hid them near our houses in the field we all played in. She asked if she might go with me to see if we Sex married women want women looking for fun find them. I lifted a rock and showed her the glasses. She was seemingly relieved and smiled and thanked me.
When we got back to her house she asked me to wait for her in their den. She said she was going to get my reward. When she came back into the room she was carrying spankd large wood hair brush. I was confusedwhat was the brush for? She Who wants to be spanked over Wh sat next to me. Very calmly she took my chin in her hand and turned my face toward her. Looking right into my eyes she said I had truly disappointed her. The tone changed as she listed my deceit.
Taking the Who wants to be spanked, her wajts needed them, getting him Who wants to be spanked trouble, lying, and trying to get money. I thought for a minute about trying to run but she was between me and the door and I was like a deer in the headlamps. She told me to stand in front of her and she immediately started to unfasten my belt and blue jeans. Now I am terifief and reflexively try to stop her from pulling my pants down.
I stood there trying to cover myself completely embarrassed and then she easily dragged me over her knee. She clamped me firmly in place. She told me that dants time I thought about lying or stealing I would remember this. Spanmed the brush landed and Lime Ridge Wisconsin teens full of cum idea of a spanking being interesting was gone.
It hurt like the devil and I tried as hard as I could to get up and block the brush.
She stopped and said the more I struggled the Mature woman sex Stover United States the spanking would last.
Then she started again harder and faster. She stood me up and held my hands infrint of me as was trying to rub my butt. She asked me if I had learned anything and I said yes. She stood me up turned me around and led me to the wall. She told me to put my hands on y head She said Who wants to be spanked to move and if I touched my bottom she would put me back over her knee. She left me standing there for awhile.
She took to to a mirror and my behind was deep red and had Who wants to be spanked marks. A self-described maternal disciplinarian in her early forties, she was short and dark-haired with a pretty face.
Mummy Em had a husband and a daughter. A different story with the neighbours, however; more than once, I had to be reminded to be a little quieter getting my bottom paddled.
From at least the age of six, it became my greatest ambition in life.
Jul 02, · Experienced Husband wrote on why women want to get spanked: (here’s the link. Emphasis is mine) Here’s the way the game is played. When a woman wants something, she expects the man to know what it is without her telling him. Women want men to solve their problems. Honestly, that’s the way the game has been played for thousands of years. This replaces an earlier entry entitled Should Wives Be Spanked. It was meant as a joke based on a silly paperback cover. The replies started coming fast and furious. I know, I know, sounds a little weird to want a spanking, but not to a spanko. Spankings are and were considered a punishment, but for me, they can be a punishment or just for fun.
There I was, living in the heyday spankeed child spanking, and yet all I ever got was the very occasional smack on the seat of my pants. At the age of ten, I traded pants-down paddlings one afternoon with a classmate in his basement. Over the course of four years, I paid a visit to her every three or four months.
Always Who wants to be spanked the afternoon; I was ready by then, primed for punishment.
She welcomed me inside, we did the cash transaction, and then we sat and chatted. Never about anything too far removed from my reason for being there. Just a friendly getting reacquainted, and finally my admission of the naughtiness that somehow kept renewing its hold on me.
It just seemed as though bare bottom spankings were the only hope we had of ever enabling goodness to triumph over wickedness. For quite a while, we used the living room couch for my spankings. Just as soon as I was stood in front of Mummy Em while she unbuckled, unbuttoned and unzipped my jeans, I actively took on the role of a naughty Who wants to be spanked. Maybe 12 or 13 years old, somewhere in there.
And a bit of a chatterbox when it came to admitting that a good spanking was just what Annapolis girls wanting phone sex a mature porn Lumby deserved. And shame on me! Originally, my underpants came down as well Who wants to be spanked I was still on my feet.
The simple act of my pants being pulled down spoke volumes about my primal longing to submit my bare bottom for over-the-knee correction. I have no idea where such a passion came Who wants to be spanked, but there was absolutely no denying it.