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They have their own ways of doing things. They don't proceed in a politically correct, enlightened way to select a woman. They may end up valuing her for the "right" things, the things she Serking to be valued for. But that is not how they start.

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There are no objective standards concerning faces. Even in the realm of extremely good-looking celebrities, you will find a whole Seeking a man who can appriciate some curves of opinions.

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With certain people, something about the face feels familiar, even familial. Many people strike us as somehow alien; but some faces arouse in us a strange empathy from the first time we set eyes on them. What is a man doing when he looks you over?

On some level, quite possibly unconscious, he or his genes are trying to decide, could this person be a lover or is she just a potential friend? If the answer comes up "lover," his charm will probably kick in, and there will be a lot of twinkling eyes and banter and smiling read: Wo assume he finds you to be above some basic threshold of attractiveness -- what other factors come into play?

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Randy is a tax lawyer, and they are bantering about the legal scene. But he opted out of court work because it was too scary, and he is very conscious of a threat to his ego in this woman.

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