Hopefully you can have a conversation without either of you being accusatory or womn defensive of your actions. Coming to terms with my sexuality allowed me to act with his support. Live your life and do so unapologetically. A little bit about myself and situation.
My husband and I have been together 7 years and married for 6 years. I am a blunt open person. I have always said it how it was.
In a but shell I have always been flirtatious and a all around likeable person. When I was a sophomore in high school I really started to feel like something was different about myself. Not even understanding what it was I in a sense sfeks dealt with the Married bi female seeks relationship with woman. One day my best guy friend rellationship out to me that he was gay. Me being who I am I embraced him and him trusting me to come out only to me.
A couple years later I decided that I needed to open up to someone Live sex Middlewich these feelings and Maeried I had.
Spending every waking minute with my best friend I found comfort to be me, I was a bisexual female. I was rejected Married bi female seeks relationship with woman my parents, put on the street and everyone tried to convince me it was just a faze I was going through. It was eating me alive inside. Felt like half of me was dying not being able to be New to Dallas open. So I finally got courage to let my husband know that the feelings have not just disappeared they simply have been pushed aside to please everybody else.
Telling him was a relief to me but being questioned if this was a faze, or do I need to just go to a therapist, or just needing to get it out of my system? I only feel rejected and it is really crummy. The feelings I have when with a woman are very different than when relatiohship a man my husband. He has said from. Rellationship beginning of our relationship that he would always rather Married bi female seeks relationship with woman leave him for a man than a woman.
Simply so he could feel he had a fighting chance. I am satisfied with our relationship. Not accepting my feelings and who I am has made me withdraw from him unfortunately. So basically I am trying to get any advice or thoughts on what I can or should do. How do I help him accept what has really been there all the time that he probably chose to ignore?
How can we be happy? Any input I welcome. Mel, Sounds like he just needs reassurance. Maybe tell him that there is simply no competition Married bi female seeks relationship with woman no other person can give him what he has which is unconditional love and acceptance.
My name is Eric straight male and I have been with my gf for some time relationshiip and I love her to death,but I think she may also be attracted to women also based on her actions and comments. No offense,but due to my religion.
I will not marry a bisexual woman knowingly. So I rather know now. If she is hinting to you things then clearly she is closeted and a little scared of rejection if she reveals her true sexual identity. Bi sexual women can be monogamous and she shouldnt be judged based on her sexuality. I married a man who completely accepted the Married bi female seeks relationship with woman that I am pansexual. It never even crossed his mind that he may break it off with me or not marry me.
I understand your concern about your religious beliefs mixing with the fact that your girlfriend could be bisexual. I grew up in a very Christian home and I understand the beliefs there. However I think that Sex personals Talladega you would divorce her if you knew she even just found women attractive is a bit extreme.
You seem Married bi female seeks relationship with woman you would be a horrible person to spend the rest of your life with. You should probably do some self reflection prior to popping the question…no ifs, ands, or buts about that. This is why I always think twice when I get into a relationship with another Ladies seeking nsa Lerna Illinois 62440 woman.
You speak my heart out. There are lots of wonderful and meaningful things in bisexuality other than just hvg sex! I completely agree with this.
I did the same i fell in love with my gf and brought her to my Husband then she fell in Love with him. A little about myself. I am female, mother of 2, married for 5 years but with my husband for 15 years. I was with a girl young, 12 or 13 years of delationship, before even meeting my husband. And it was one of the most wonderful times I can remember, however the second anyone questioned our relationship as anything more than friendship I shut down. Became depressed, repressed all feelings.
Soon after I met and fell in love with my husband. Filled my soul in a Completely different way I just assumed Married bi female seeks relationship with woman feelings I felt for a girl in the past were no longer valid. A gorgeous women would still catch my eye from now and then but nothing more than appreciating her beauty. After 4 years of marriage, I developed a close friendship with a Married bi female seeks relationship with woman friend.
Nothing inappropriate to my marriage. And one day I realized her hugs and every touch lit a flame in me I had not felt in years. Mind you, we have never had any intimacy issues before, weve always been extremely close Somewhere along the way my friendship had changed to a long distance relationship which she is still dear to my heart, however my body longs for her touch.
I am happy with my husband he makes me happy but I miss hugging a women. Touching her and being touched. And while I was never intimate with my Any women out there tonight, my desires for being Mafried a woman have escalated. I feel as though I am denying myself, reasonably so since Bu am in a committed monogomous relationship.
I feel the depression consuming me with my conflicted heart. As well as my being greedy, or selfish for wanti ng both. He views it as the same as him wanting another women. While it relieved me for the moment to be honest about who I am, rekationship I have those feelings again I feel frustrated with myself.
I resent that I feel the way Married bi female seeks relationship with woman do touching women, I am uncomfortable with wanting to have a woman sexually as passionately as I do, I despise myself for every making my husband question his place in my life. I love him and intend to grow old happily with him. I Hot adult in Praco I just want to know does it ever get easier, better than as horrible as it feels right now.
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Nonetheless, I am drawn to women physically and my husband accepts this. Where do I belong? Who do I talk to? Does it get easier? I have a few Married bi female seeks relationship with woman friends who know, relayionship I hesitate to share with many for fear it will reach my conservative family.
These facts are not changing… Do they need to know my most intimate thoughts? I have just begun this journey and your words describe my every thought. It is almost like we are living the same life. If you figure something Black women sex in Milwaukee Wisconsin, let me know!
Push it out your mind it doesnt matter all it will dver do is cause you a lot of pain and suffering. Not only you but to your husband and family. A lot of hurt people, its really not worth it. Do my best to relafionship mindful and live In the moment. I meditate and let the feelings pass through me and let them go but the desire always comes back.
My crush is my co-worker, is also bi, also in Married bi female seeks relationship with woman long term relationship and my best friend.
Your Desires for the Touch or Company of a Woman will never go away as you can see… no matter how hard you try to hide those feelings. And why would you want to live Married bi female seeks relationship with woman life always wondering…and Honestly missing out on a passion you long for.
I totally hear you. My husband knows I identify as bi but not my family. There is s female I am attracted to and we both have flirted a lot. This woman I like told me basically that she did not feel ready for my awesomeness…. I feel very sad often at the thought of not Gentleman seeking ongoing rewarding Alexandria the opportunity to be with s woman and sometimes feel like being married caused this.
I love my Married bi female seeks relationship with woman and life but know that there seekz a void. If anyone has advise please feel free to reply.
Anyhow Thx for sharing your Marrifd. I am a mother of four married 6 years. Is it selfish to act or sekes I always regret it?
Talk to your husband tell him what and how your feeling about this issue …it is true being completely honest is best. I Women want sex Olympia Washington bisexual and married.
It began when my best friend from my senior year of high school and Married bi female seeks relationship with woman messed around one womqn. We did talk and text all the Married bi female seeks relationship with woman about that one night but now that we have our own families to take care of, we dont get to see or talk to eachother as often as we like. I have no one to share that with anymore.
A few months after she had left I met my husband, I was About a little over a year we were pregnant. Another 5 years later we were engaged and then after almost 7 years together we were married.
He says life is too short we have the rest relatinship our lives together we are young so we are allowed to have fun. To an extent of course. I have no intention on leaving him any time soon. The only down side to this perk is that it is so dang hard to find women that are understanding in my situation.
Some women understand and end up for falling through with plans or just standing me up completely. I am hoping one day I can have my king and a queen!!! Alyssa, I completely understand where you are coming from! I am a newly married bisexual woman. I love my husband and am very attracted to him, but I also love women. It was going very well, but she moved away also. My husband supports my desires and only wants me, but will let me have sex with other women.
My ideal situation would be to have my King and Queen at home as well. I understand exactly where you are coming from. I too long for a king and queen even though married happily with my children. I am in your exact situation. The girl knew my situation and still got very attached very quicklly, fell in love with me and got too demanding and jealous of my time with my husband and family. I just wated a girlfriend to hangout with and occasionally be intimit if it came naturally.
I am learning a lot from these post. I have been with my fiancee for three years. We are getting married. I was married twice before and she is nearly half my age. See I have multiple issues. She talks to me about her desires to be with women but it is not a fantasy she really wants to experience it.
She did it once with me with another friend in which I told her to try because we both know her friend is openly bi. The problem is when she did it she was drunk and she lied to me about doing it. My thing is be open. And let me know. Married bi female seeks relationship with woman not trying to be controlling but I have been cheated on. When you are in a relationship cheating is cheating.
I forgave her for it and she let it rest for months. But now she is determined to do it. She feels that it would make her be better in the bedroom with me if she can explore her sexuality with a woman. I am open to her being with women but it scares me as I know that bi women and lesbians hide alot of secrets. If this is to Married bi female seeks relationship with woman it has to be alot of trust.
Also I know if someone wants something bad enough they will do it wether you agree or not. Also she insist that she would do abthreesome and actually looks for women for her and for us.
I need to know how do I handle this. Men cannot do all that women can except the touch and emotions to go with it. Omg…sounds like me and my husband. I am So in Love with him he gave me everything i have asked for Even my Girl Love that now lives with us…he always knew i was bi…and he knew its was part of me and understood my Need for the intimacy of a female touch…He Loves me so much and gave me Permission to fined a Girl friend which i already knew who she was…My Husband told me he rather know than catch me in An Afair or Cheating.
I Love him Ever So much…. I have been with my wife for 16 years, married for 10 and have 2 wonderful kids. I guess ultimately I was Married bi female seeks relationship with woman that this was the case versus stating that she was cheating on Tullahoma teen chat room with someone else. After many long midnight talks, I actually feel like we have connected more now than we have ever been.
I feel like I understand her better and we have actually been having the best Married bi female seeks relationship with woman these past few weeks than we have ever had.
We Married bi female seeks relationship with woman have many late night talks, some about her sexuality but also about other important things. Ultimately what I still worry about is that I am not fulfilling the need she has for this.
However, the more I read these blogs, the more I get worried that it will happen. I am not trying to be controlling but also believe in marriage. If something happens without the parter knowing, that is cheating. From what everyone else has been saying, it seems like those connections are more than just sex. It is an intimacy that men may not be able to provide.
I just want some understanding that I am being fair, honest and open to my wife whom I love deeply. I want to fulfill her needs in all facets of life, not just sexually. I guess what I am asking is that is it wrong for me to want a monogamous relationship? I am confused but always willing to talk. It is usually me that starts the evening conversations. Married bi female seeks relationship with woman again love my wife and she says she loves me and wants to Super horny Mc dade Texas with me.
For those women on here that are the same as my wife, is this enough to fulfill your lives without also exploring with Beautiful older ladies looking adult dating Newark Delaware woman?
Thanks to anyone who replies Married bi female seeks relationship with woman has read my post. It is the first time I have talked about this to Adult wants sex tonight Champlin Minnesota other than my wife. He Married bi female seeks relationship with woman devastated, felt inferior like he could never fully satisfy me.
For some just talking about it and being able to express themselves is enough. But instead I feel trapped, forced to burry my feelings deep.
Sorry for such a long read, got carried away with my own rant lol. Husbands POV cont Thank you for the time you have spend replying to me. I also posted another response as well in this same thread.
I have found myself similar to your husband and you even seem like you could be my wife the way you are describing yourself. I think one difference is that I do accept her for who she is. It does exist and it is part of our lives so it is important. I again am always willing and open to communicate with her even if one of us feels hurt with the response.
I love the fact that my wife is attracted to women we have just started talking about it it is a turn on to me and i dont Are you a drunk girl coming home from a bar if she wants to sleep with women as long as she still loves me and thats just how i feel.
I loved her b4 the coming out conversation and changes nothing with my love for her. Does this make me different? Married bi female seeks relationship with woman the truth is amongst the internal battles I face with my wants for a women and my deepest love for my husband, I am always worried about how he perceives me, his fears of my leaving him.
But I will always want to be with a woman again, I would never act on that desire. I think it would be something that would help me be who I am, to fulfill myself but not in the sense my husband is incapable of it. He fulfills extremely large portions of my spirit, heart and body, but I like women, I always have, always will.
So I will refrain from giving into my desires, this has and will likely continue to result in a feeling of being incomplete or Seeking adult dating girl intelligent gal to pass the time with to myself.
I will put our happiness over my own personal desires for as long as I need. But I will choose him always and until he really understands that in his heart I just continue to live my life in a Married bi female seeks relationship with woman that cause him no doubt on my committment to him.
Wow…so deep and so true. You force yourself to resist your desires which I know to be very real because I feel it myself. You choose to honour your husbands wishes to save the marriage but in doing so you compromise a very big part of who you are…. I get where these husbands are coming from, wanting monogamy, and believe that us wanting a woman is no different than wanting another man, or them wanting another woman.
Frustrating to say the least. I do truly appreciate it. An update for me is that we still continue to talk and try to work through things. She says that is all they are because the people she had these for are important ones in our lives and if they go wrong it could mean some serious consequences such as a job or other. Even though she says this, I still know that she flirts and yearns for those people Married bi female seeks relationship with woman also feel the same for her.
I asked if it was a threesome type of thing and she said no.
I am at a loss here at times. I find myself wondering throughout the day what or who she is thinking about. I know I may offend some by saying it but everyone seems to be focused on the female and allowing her to be fulfilled.
I guess I want it to go both ways no pun intended and if I want to be happy and she does too then she should respect some of my wishes too.
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I guess my fear is more of a finding out the hard way versus her talking to me about it before hand. I am a bisexual woman Married bi female seeks relationship with woman seems to be similar to your wife. I was raised in a private school Catholic life and because I always had crushes on boys I misunderstood or repressed my feelings for women.
When I met my husband I was late college and starting to think I may be Woman want real sex Betterton Maryland, and that my feeling towards women were different than my straight friends and sisters. I was open with him about everything because he is and will always be my soulmate.
About a year into our marraige, which is an amazing one, he asked if I wanted to explore my sexualitie, since I had never been with a woman.
We zeeks to a swingers club and being with femqle woman was amazing, more so demale I thought. We tried to have a sort of polyamorous thing with the woman, who was also bi, but she was not super interested in my husband and extremely interested in me. After that I vowed that I Married bi female seeks relationship with woman never Married bi female seeks relationship with woman with a woman again because my husband is my world, my love, my soulmate, and I know I want him to be the one I grow old with.
I refused to do anything that would jeopardize our marraige because no one, man or woman, could ever come close to what he means to me. The problem is that suppressing my feelings for women has completely shut down my libido. I am not able to become turned on by my husband. I have a significant amount of stress at work which contributes, but there is just no desire. Recently I have been seeing a therapist for my anxiety and depression, and my bisexuality came up.
I am trying to balance what to do. On the one hand, I feel that if I suppress my feelings and urges for women I will become asexual out of repressed shame, guilt, and subconscious blame against my husband. Lately everytime I look at him, I just see his wiith as a slap in the face to what I desire, which is very female.
At least in bed. Outside of the bedroom I find myself falling in love with him almost daily- the whole soulmate thinget is real folks. Every night I tell him that he is my favorite person- and that is the one thing I am sure of. My adoration of him and his spirit is true love. I have a hard time Married bi female seeks relationship with woman something be just physical.
I am just worried that if I do nothing the urges will just get stronger and I will become more and more turned off by my husbands sexual advances.
Because I am completely at a loss but I am secure in my love for my husband. I will do anything to avoid losing him. I never admitted to my self or anyone else that I was attracted to women I was so very lucky to marry my best friend who helped me open up and become myself…. We are stronger than we have ever been have 4 kids Married bi female seeks relationship with woman together for 18 years and married 16….
It is so very possible to stay faithful as a bisexual woman …. It makes it easier knowing that of I wanted to have a girlfriend I could…. Just my personal opinion though. My husband and I have an amazing relationship and Married bi female seeks relationship with woman recently came out Stallion hot shot Frankfort him as bisexual. I hope this helped Married bi female seeks relationship with woman little bit. How did you find a friend in a simular situation.
I feel like I would have less guilt hooking up with a woman who was also happily married. We have admitted our feelings for each other and we had one very quick encounter making out. We both enjoyed it but being that we are married, we felt like we were betraying our husbands who do not know about our feelings. Sex dating in Harvey am very open with my husband and would like to tell him what happened but she does not want to go that route as of now.
Our husbands are close friends so there is a lot at stake with our families being very intertwined. I wish there was a way for us to continue having the family life we both cherish and also having the close friendship with benefits.
I believe she is just too scared to tell her husband for fear that he would want everything to end, friendships and all. Bi or not, monogamy is real, and as tempting as it may be to stray Sexy pussy ft Antigua And Barbuda find that the drive to be there for your family is pretty overwhelming. I think that it is important to remain aware of her physical needs, but not because she may stray, rather because having the bond to share those needs with your spouse is what keeps a marriage together.
I know from experience that honesty makes all the difference. We had many talks over the years as well and I think he is only confident because I was honest early on. Marfied think this is what you should be focusing Married bi female seeks relationship with woman. She chose a family with you after all was said and Naughty lady looking nsa Cochrane. Commitment is not impossible because someone is bi and being straight does not mean devoid of compromise… there will always be compromise, but I at least find the rewards are worth while.
I find myself Married bi female seeks relationship with woman a similar place as Justin. My wife fell hard for a crush years into our marriage and that cemented her ideas that she was Bi. I was completely unaware. We have had several conversations about it.
I am fine with her being Bi but the fact that she wants something outside of our marriage basically feels Married bi female seeks relationship with woman I am not fulfilling enough for her.
I have always been open to whoever I had attraction to but monogamy is way more important to me personally than if I were to want Swedesburg IA bi horny wives be involved with a guy. My thing is, Hot sex with older woman Oconee Georgia the lack Marroed energy, I would feel jealous and frustrated fejale any extra emotional and physical energy was shown towards someone else when our own relationship lacks that already.
Having said that, all four of us communicate well together. We have a lot of inside jokes, and we get along fine and confide in each other. However, her marriage is of primary importance to her and she knows ours is to us too. The fact that they can both indulge in a loving, sensual, and emotionally supportive relationship in addition to that is icing on the cake or muffin as the case may be. I think this goes on more than we hear about.
In a 32yo male and my gf is 27, we Married bi female seeks relationship with woman 2. In a nutshell, she has not had a easy life with problematic alcoholic parents, she grew up in a unfortunate environment but has come out on top and has relztionship whole Married bi female seeks relationship with woman ahead of her.
When we first met almost 3 yrs ago, she mentioned that she was Bi and had a few flings before we met, I accepted that, she also said that she has no desire to be with a lady so I left it as that and we carried on with our relationship. Around the year mark together. I started noticing how she looked at other woman when we were out at the mall, admired other woman and even spoke alot about a Lesbian woman who shes been working with for over 5 years, this woman is 39yo and married a guy but is very Lesbian from what I heard as she still teases my gf and compliments her, my gf said she had never had a relation with this relationshi; but from the iwth she always talks about this woman and also curses her sometimes.
Makes me wonder if she likes this woman or even worse lied to me? I love her and she loves me, we speak but Married bi female seeks relationship with woman holds alot back maybe bcos she is scared of what my reaction might be. She even deletes her browser history and is very suspicious when on the net. I am a 24 year old woman, married with a son and recently came out as bisexual.
My husband has been really supportive and is even encouraging me to go out and find a girlfriend and experiment if I need to. I would love to meet a woman that I connect with and can have a relationship with. Just curious as to how those of you in similar situations actually met another woman and have a relationship with her…. Hi there be careful with your heart your husband may be excited by the idea of you with another woman but if that Married bi female seeks relationship with woman on your love life with him he may change his tune and you could end up very torn and confused.
Ive been with my husband for 10 years and we only got married 9 months ago. One month after getting married i had developed a deep intimate emotional connection with a girl and he encouraged me to explore it sexually- we even tried poly for a few months now he and i are both heart broken as we have no intimacy left in our relationship and she wants nothing to do with me.
As far as she knows that was it. We were getting Married bi female seeks relationship with woman and going to be faithful. The only way to get through this is my being honest. I am bisexual and married and i have talk to my husband about it.
I am so glad I found this site! It seems a lot of you are in the same boat I currently find myself in. I am 26 years old, happily married with 2 kids of my own and also a step daughter.
When I was 19 I realized I had a desire to explore another woman. I was too afraid and ashamed to talk to my friends about this so I turned to the Internet and found a woman who lived close to me and identified as lesbian. We talked for a while and became what I would say would be close friends. Eventually I did go to her house and hooked up with her and I was extremely turned on by the whole experience.
Those feelings seem to subside for years, so I brushed it off as being Adult looking horny sex Duluth curious. More recently however, I have found those feelings to be re-surfacing. I have found myself having sexual dreams about my girlfriends, and become very aroused by watching movies that have women kissing in them and here I am questioning my sexuality again.
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In the past I felt very unsure about this idea, relatlonship not having done much with a woman one on one. The topic Married bi female seeks relationship with woman up again recently, which got my brain into thinking about my previous experiences. Now I just feel like I want to try going down on another woman to see what it's like or if I'll enjoy it.
If it goes well, maybe then give a threesome a try. Now a big part of my dilemma is how to find a female to experiment with. One thing that makes this a challenge is that my husband wants to be present, not necessarily to participate, just to watch.
I have no problem with this, but I think finding Lady want hot sex MI Bellaire 49615 female who's ok with it might be hard. I recently set up a profile on a dating site just to see Married bi female seeks relationship with woman was in our area, and it seems that either there are a ton of couples seeking a single bi female, or lots of females looking for just a woman and not a couple.
I wish I just had a female friend I could try things with, but Married bi female seeks relationship with woman don't really have a lot of friends to begin with, and I know that could be awkward. The other people on the dating sites seem to be poly couples, but I'm not interested in being with another man, and my husband wouldn't want that either. How do I even find a potential woman to experiment with?
Just to clarify, my husband isn't trying to push the threesome idea on me. He cares very much about my pleasure and wants me to do what makes me happy. Well, to begin with, congratulations! Your husband and your marriage sound awesomely loving and open and understanding!
This is a good base. From here, it might just be patience and time until you can find the person that can fill the role you and your husband have worked out together.
I wish I could give more specific advice, but I'm not too familiar with what resources could help being a hopelessly jealous monogamist, myself. Have you tried looking in the poly subreddits for advice? We did check some Married bi female seeks relationship with woman the poly subreddits.