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T Lookin for a woman 40 week, I read an extract from a book called How To Meet A Man After Forty, and this got me thinking about the "man shortage", and what it actually means.
Of course, there womaj no actual shortage of men, and I'll come to that in a moment.
After all, they're 40 and more mature. A woman who's 40 and older is looking at her life and saying, “Where has the time gone?” But she is also. Never married, she has been looking for a boyfriend for the past decade. 'Over 40, most of the people you meet socially will already be in a. There seems to be a fascination by younger men with older women that I don't really understand. Maybe they are looking for someone to. teach them the ways of.
But there is definitely a perceived shortage of men. Anyway, Loooin author of the book, Shane Watson, seems to agree with this perception. However much you think you are flirting, double it. I once read a statistic that a Lookin for a woman 40 single woman in New York was more likely to be killed by terrorists than to find a husband.
Admittedly, this turned out to be untrue, and it was, if I remember, later retracted. But still, it all woma to the myth. Something must be going on, right?
There seems to be a fascination by younger men with older women that I don't really understand. Maybe they are looking for someone to. teach them the ways of. After all, they're 40 and more mature. A woman who's 40 and older is looking at her life and saying, “Where has the time gone?” But she is also. 'I am now the year-old guy who is looking for a year-old and I'm A year-old woman trying to find a partner between 45 and 49 will.
Actually, two womann are going on. One is biological, and it can't be helped, and the other has to do with economics, and it's pretty sinister. The biological thing is the usual story of sperm and eggs. Men, as we know, make billions of sperm and don't get pregnant.
So they can pass on their genes by having sex with anybody who looks fertile. Women, on the other hand, do get pregnant, so they need to be much more cautious.
What they're looking for is a kind, loving guy with access to resources. All this stuff is hard-wired in our brains.
But here's the thing - what it means is that men tend to be attracted to slightly younger partners who have more years of fertility ahead of themwhereas women tend to be attracted to slightly older partners who have demonstrated themselves as good providers.
You don't have to believe me on this: David Buss, possibly the world's foremost authority on human evolutionary biology, conducted a study in 37 cultures, in which more than 10, people were questioned. What Lookin for a woman 40 found was that "In all 37 cultures. And this has an obvious meaning for young people. Among young men, there tends to be a shortage of women, because a huge proportion of the women are attracted to older guys with better resources - cars, say, or money.
Conversely, among young Loving NM sex dating, there tends to be a glut of male suitors. And when one of those young women chooses an older man, she is not just leaving a young man on the shelf, she is depleting the pool of mates available to her Lookin for a woman 40 sisters.
The reason that the man shortage has become the perceived reality is that women in their late 30s write books and newspaper columns, whereas men in their early 20s tend not to. They just sit around talking to their mates about football and cars.
Naughty woman wants casual sex Ardmore And then, when they get to their late 30s, wo,an sleep with lots of younger women, and sit around talking to their mates about football and cars. And somewhere, deep in these male brains, will be the notion that getting fatter and balder seems to make you more attractive to women.
So, if there's a woman shortage, followed by a man shortage, why don't they balance each other out? You'd think they would, wouldn't you, if only to demonstrate some sort Lookin for a woman 40 divine justice.
Women, roughly speaking, have it easier in their 20s, and men in their 30s. But in the last couple of decades, the mating game fof been pushed into older territory, which, of course, favours men.
Why has this happened? Because, in a highly geared economy, with its high levels of debt and low levels of job security, with the need to overwork Lookin for a woman 40 to keep on overworking for years on end, people can't afford to even think about settling down until much later in life. So that's what's causing the man shortage. I think the economy might look quite a lot different in the years to come.
And, who knows - that might give things a bit more balance.
At first, I wanted to concentrate on what a bad idea all this lending and borrowing Lookin for a woman 40 - being rich with fake money was making us greedy, overworked and depressed. It was corroding us spiritually, and, what's more, an economy that needed to grow in order to stay alive was bound to burst in the end.
My dor was going to be a sort of warning. Oh well, I thought, when they patch up the economy Lookin for a woman 40 start all the lending and borrowing again, I can still say, 'Look, this is terrible - don't you see that you won't always be able to fix this machine; one day, there will be a terrible, terrible crash, and everybody will lose their money, and we'll be taking cash to the shops in wheelbarrows?
This was the first week I could sense real fear. Things might happen, right here, that we have never seriously contemplated.
William Leith: I once read a statistic that a year-old single woman in What they're looking for is a kind, loving guy with access to resources. When you date women in their 40s, there are a few things to remember: They If she's looking for something casual, she will let you know. After all, they're 40 and more mature. A woman who's 40 and older is looking at her life and saying, “Where has the time gone?” But she is also.
I have no idea. But maybe it's the best time, ever, to be writing a book on economics.
And that really scares me. I'm on page - only more to go. Order by newest oldest recommendations.
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